The most I got from WAW was "things need to change or something's going away" - and to this day she insists it should have been "obvious" that she meant "divorce."
Same damn thing here. I should have obviously known that, "We have a communication issue" really meant "I'm going to ask for a divorce next month." We argued on this point several times post-bomb and never got close to an agreement that she really said what she meant nor offered to work on issues.
As pointed out, WAS was probably already checked out.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
