I'm pretty sure my H is a Nice Guy - but what's the female equivalent? Because I'm it.
Dia, have you ever watched that old movie, "Gone With the Wind"? I can't remember her character's name but she was the one married to "Ashley" in the movie. She was the complete opposite of Scarlett O'Hara. She was so "sweet" that she was sickening, IMHO. Call me crazy, but it seems to me that men would like a little spice to go with some of that sugar. There was only one scene in the movie where she was anything other that......too meek.....to mild.....and way too sweet...(yuck)!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
