Originally Posted By: tristan
Would it be wrong to try to get the W, girls, MIL & I out together as a family this weekend? Does it go against what I am trying to obtain?


What do you get out of this?

I'm not saying you can't do any of it but are you trying to get something out of this by doing any of this?

If you want to get the entire family out for the weekend for some fun or because you want to, by all means do it.

If you're doing it to advance your DB'ing goals, not sure how that will be accomplished by this.

By having a great weekend with your kids, MIL, W, will this make your W think twice about leaving for the OM? I don't think that is what will happen - I could be wrong.