That's a great suggestion! When I started looking, I thought that the divorcebusting site might have a listing of therapists in various locations who apply Michele's principles. But when I didn't find any, I felt like I was out of luck. I agree that you've got to be somewhat lucky to find the right therapist by pointing a finger in the yellow pages. I'd feel much better if I could get a recommendation. I'll give it a try. Thanks.