How long did you and your Husband wait before going?
Depends on how you look at it. We were pretty miserable together for a number of years. But neither of us would leave. Then he started an affair and began to plan in earnest to divorce me. I found out about the affair and bungled it for him by having my raving lunatic son call her and show her the type of family she was messing with.
We then tried to reconcile on our own for a week or so, but it was really a cleverly disguised war. And then I heard of Retrouvaille, and he agreed to go the first time I brought it up. And then we had to wait about a month for the program. So all together, about 6 weeks from discovery of the affair to walking in the door.
