Hi Wifey, thanks so much for youre kind words. I will definitely keep posting.
I've been quite busy over the past while with the move and with friends etc etc. Boy it feels so great!!
I move in a few days so I'm really excited about that. Not totally packed up yet thought but I have fun doing it.
I've hit a few bumps in my road to "recovery." First off, still don't have a job and still no calls for any interviews. But what can ya do in this economy. I'll work anywhere and I have applied everywhere, still no luck but I still have hope.
There was also a problem with the apartment and now I have to pay an additional 1200 for last months rent. I'm worried about it but I know I can manage!
And I FINALLY got my HD from X!! I just got it today, jesus it took ages for him to send it. And he only sent it because I yelled and screamed for it (through email of only of course). I waited over 2 months for it, false promises and all. And he still hasn't sent money or the marriage cert. Hoping he will soon.
And nope, I did not and will not sign any documents to help him get his visa. I remember someone here saying that they predicted that I would sign the papers just before his visa expires. Well it expires in a few days and I am very proud to have proved that wrong!!
So we are basically done now, he's going to pick up his stuff from my new apartment and that will be the first and last time I see him since everything happened. I am really happy about it. I am very happy to be done with all of this soon. It feels liberating to be honest. Friends or not, I'm just happy to have my life back and I'm gonna make sure to maintain this happy life. I'm DETACHED!!! woooooohooooo!!!
Me: 25 years young H: 37 No Kids M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th) Together: 4years Bomb: June 12th, 2009
**LOVE WILL FIND A WAY FOR TWO FOOLS IN THE RAIN**