I'm going to have to agree with the rest. It sounds like your W is having an A or at the very least maybe an EA. Have you actually seen her going out with these friends of hers? If you start casually asking her what she did that night, does she tell you or does she get defensive?

I think you better start taking notes.

Just my 2 cents.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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