Thanks for your input concerning your experiences with counseling. It's nice to know that I'm not the only person who never envisioned going to a counselor but is now deciding that it could be of great benefit. Your situation is probably the main reason that I've started thinking seriously about it so I'm really pulling for you and your husband to make some amazing progress - both for your sake and to validate the effectiveness of counseling in my mind. I'm curious to find out how your session went tonight. Best of luck to you, and for what it's worth I think your husband attempts to work on the problem are a real testimony of his love for you. Go easy on him and realize how much anxiety he's probably dealing with right now. I'm sure that as that anxiety goes away things will get much better.