Thanks Sara. I have heard of the program. Not sure if this is the right thing to do or not in regards to waiting to go. I have been waiting for her to get in a better frame of mind before I spring it on her. Was going to wait a bit before I sent her the link.

That is one thing I have learned through all this is that we never developed an intimate enough relationship to really share our true feelings. Not saying that would have stopped this from happening, but it would have helped. How long did you and your Husband wait before going?

Remarried 6 mo
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