He has almost "demanded" that I put the divorce on hold several times, but shows no signs of wanting to work out our marriage. The house he is renting is larger and nicer than ours!! I want him to come back, but he's gone and I know I have to be smart as snodderly said and leave my emotions at the door because this is a business deal. Wish there was some other way. What my friends say is that he'll be thankful I saved some of the money and his business when he does eventually come back....


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B