In Limbo

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J3B-Glad to hear your marriage worked out. You know I like a success story..

I hear you on the vows. For better or worse. There was an interesting R talk that I had with the wife half way through this mess. I brought up our vows and that you don't just cut and run when it gets bad. Her response was, I really don't value my vows anymore..

Clearly you can see I am an impatient guy. I do like to be able to fix things or at least see progress towards my goal. My goal of staying married. I have never been In Limbo in my life. This is more like Purgatory.

I sure I speak for many when you just get fed up with putting your heart, ego, pride on a shelf why you let this person who you don't really know anymore come and go as they please. Say what they want, act how they want. They can say things to you that cuts like a knife. We work on ourselves and they get to "Act Out" like a teenager.

I know it has only been 4 months. But as I mentioned earlier you look for signs that the person you married may come back. When you see nothing, it sucks.

I realize I am the only one that can call it. I am not calling it. I am here for the long haul. I guess I will know when I have reached the end of my rope....