I called my lawyer this morning. He suggested sending an email an he will call her lawyer to document the concern
This is what I was going to send
I am concerned when I picked up our boys last and they were upset that they were told that I was doing bad things. Our 7 year was sad when he heard that from you and our 3 year was mad. Our 7 year said he did not believe what you said was true but did not want to say anything to you as he was afraid you would be mean to him
Your acts of infidelity goes against the commitment we made I each other but I would expect that we would both honor the commitment to protect our children.
Any thoughts?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13