Sooner:

I'm not being sarcastic, but you may want to try your yellow pages under 'psychologists.' That's how I found mine. There was a whole list of them. So I closed my eyes and stabbed at the page. The first one was someone who specialized in eating disorders so I did it again.

I found two that way; I did "eenie, meenie, minee, mo," between them, then called.

I know that doesn't sound very methodical or responsible. I wasn't trying to be cavalier about finding someone. But like you, I had no idea where to begin. So I came up with my own method. And it worked.

I think anyone you find who specialized in family and marital counseling will be good to start with. Once you are in it, you will be able to determine if you want to stay with them, or find another.

Corri