I think you have done the right thing in your filing. My divorce is final today and I have to say, like dday that if given more time, things would be different. This week she finally started dicussing the idea of leaving the door open after the divorce. The fact is for me though, that now I need time before I can even consider to the idea.
IN my state, we have a two month waiting period after the filing. Unless there's abuse, etc. I think this is just not enough time.
Separating physically was the best thing we could do, because it made her start to think. We came close, just not enough time.
Oh well! I'm single today!
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
