Anger is NOT a primary emotion. Usually it is caused by hurt OR fear which is expressed by anger, sort of a coping mechanism. I paid a lot of money to my C to get this into my head. And lately, I've been angry too. And I know what it is. It is hurt AND fear...
Kalni, great point, but I do not think mine is based on fear. Mine seems to stem from my W's failure to have any sense of urgency to "get to work" on your M. And, probably from a justified feeling that I am carrying ALL the load for the M right now - I know, I accepted that responsibility when I made the decision to try to save the M.
But, I don't feel or sense fear. If W came to me today and said it was over, I would not like it, but I know I would be ok.
