Although I haven't posted to your thread in the last day or so, I have been (and will continue to) following your thread. Just hang in there until Retro.
If there is any funny business going on, you can bring it up after Retro. Right now, focus on you and doing what you have to do to kep your mind right.
And, just keep your eyes open. Not EVERY sitch here involves an A - not saying your's does or does not. We have discussed this before, so I know you aren't turning a blind eye to the possibility.
I do agree that if there is someone else involved, that will have to be addressed.