She gave me a horse on facebook's farmville. Not sure some of you will have any idea what that means. But I figure this action and playing scrabble on facebook means she's not hating me at the moment. She would shut down 100% if she was.

I texted "thanks for the horse" - got a reply - replied and then stopped the textversation when she did not respond.

I'm thinking tonight I will text "good night" at my usual bedtime, since I did not do anything last night. I feel like I am thinking out each move too much. But, I really think the next couple of days are crucial. I know she doesn't want me to "push" (her term), so I am doing my best not to.

What's the sweet spot between not pushing/pusuing and having your waw think you don't care?


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.