Still Wondering How To Handle Things!!

[kissak]

Actually her pulling started a couple of months before he left...I often wonder if she saw something or heard something about him and this OW at the time that would have triggered it with her...of course him leaving definitely made it worse...of course he doesnt really think he is the cause of none of it....he doesnt have to deal with it day to day like I have to do. The only other thing I can contribute it to is her starting a new grade that year that she stressed about because she heard it was hard....not really sure why she started though...but i know its just an outlet for stress, although she claims she only does it when she is bored.

Im glad you are dealing well with yours by keeping it short...my daughter actually prefers hers short. She said she doesnt like it touching her neck....its not but several inches long over her head, and funny thing is that it all grew back kinky curly!! We have to straighten it for it to look a little longer so she feels better about wearing it that way to school...kids can be so mean to her about it...luckily she handles it well.

I think she will always just have a really short haircut...which luckily she wears well....she is tall and skinny and looks like a run way model now! lol...she is taller than me!! and still growing up!