While eating I tell her that I am planning on cutting her cell phone and transfering our joint account into one that is only in my name. W: "This feels wierd." M: "Yes. It brings a sense of completeness." We both stand there awkwardly. Both wanting to say more; but not.
Be bold, strong and confident. So then turn and leave the room. Nothing else needs to be said.
Yes, there a lot of things at stake. How much of this do you control? Do you have a choice in the seperation? The key is in how you handle it. You have to prepare for either outcome and the sooner your wife sees that you are handling it then the quicker she sees life without you.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
