Lola, I know how you feel. And I tried too, to remind him of our past, of our dreams, of our good moments. His eyes back then were...cold and empty. Now I know as well he was stringing "pearls" with the other woman. Funny, as he has been acting cold and distant to her for the last few months, SHE is now using THEIR memories and past to get him back. And it seems to be working some. I almost told her she should DB him for better results -lol...
Your H showed lack of character during the shock of your brother's death. That's something I wouldnt be able to forgive either. The hurt is there. For most of us, if not for all of us. No easy way around it. Day by day Lola, xxx K
