I agree..for now -dont give your H the letter
But write it
get everything out
edit it
dont give it to him
save it
you can always decide to give H a letter later

good job with no R talks
H was interested in your energy after you went out
be unpredictable
I would make plans
or figure out something to do this weekend at least part of the time
even if you go to a movie alone
volunteer somewhere
get involved at church
join a book club

or call a girl friend

I started taking dance lessons early on in the crises
and that gave me a social life
It wa fun and still is
I made friends danced every thursday and saturday
I became a decent dancer and I love it
never thought about dancing before this time in my life
met a guy adventually
but I didnt go for that reason..I went to get my mind off things and experience life as a single person because I was
be a little mysterious and continue as hard as it is
to be upbeat to H
smile at him
act forgiving no R talks
IF he has a ow in canada that may be better than having one around the corner
it could end before it gets to far
see if you can stick this out a little longer
and just practice taking care of yourself
You will know more later
and remember whatever H does, you will be ok
we have all survivied this and come out better, happier and nore enlightened
you will too
trust God and yourself
you are wise and capable
you were chosen to weather this because you can
peace
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow