GG KImmie is so right I do not know your full situation but MY xh had a secret credit card account He spent unbelievable amounts of money on OW and his lifestyle he lied and lied and lied I always handked our finances and in the past , H was modest but in MLC he went crazy AT first, I counld not believe it but Credit card statements dont lie he kept everything hidden he was giving ow money too he almost crashed our business into the ground i saved it at the last second with my L help and now I have control of the financial part of our shared business SO Be smart here seperate finances from the love you still feel thew MLCer will use that to steal it all and they are so deceptive they dont care..they have little conciuos at this point they are not the same seperate the old H from this alien her is alien now sure the mlcer will get mad blame it on your L and accpet the fact that the mad is part of the D and getting the agreement the way it needs to be for you peace so
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow