GG
KImmie is so right
I do not know your full situation
but
MY xh had a secret credit card account
He spent unbelievable amounts of money on OW and his lifestyle
he lied and lied and lied
I always handked our finances and in the past , H was modest
but in MLC he went crazy
AT first, I counld not believe it but Credit card statements dont lie
he kept everything hidden
he was giving ow money too
he almost crashed our business into the ground
i saved it at the last second with my L help and now I have control of the financial part of our shared business
SO
Be smart here
seperate finances from the love you still feel
thew MLCer will use that to steal it all and they are so deceptive
they dont care..they have little conciuos at this point
they are not the same
seperate the old H from this alien
her is alien now
sure the mlcer will get mad
blame it on your L
and accpet the fact that the mad is part of the D and getting the agreement the way it needs to be for you
peace
so


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow