He doesn't know how I know, he has no clue I have gotten the statement out of his mailbox and then put it back. My name is on his paperwork for his house, so I figure that mailbox is mine, too. It is right out in front of the house on the street like everyone's in our town.
I didn't mention the last discovery to him. All I mentioned is that a debit from KC showed up on the June statement. He has his own acct but also on rare occasion uses our OLD acct, the one I don't use anymore. It only has a couple hundred dollars in it. He didn't ask me how I knew, maybe he thinks he accidentally took it out of our joint acct.
Wouldn't you know Sunday is our 12th anniversary. 2 years ago I made him a scrapbook for our 10 years together, set the table with napkins from our wedding, with our unity candle and cake topper for a centerpiece, etc etc. He was already sleeping with her then...Last year we had just done Retro and we went out to dinner just the two of us...this part does suck.
