Like the plan, think it's probably the only way to go. I'm trying the same, it may not bring our H back but it's definitely better for US, which I've decided is the main thing. Since I've made the decision I feel so much better and happier in myself. We shall see how it pans out. I've reached the deal breaker, any man who thinks it's OK to have an A with my (former) best friend doesn't really deserve me.