Reminds me of the angry "couple" in front of me at yoga tonight... I was in absolute shock at their presence in the women's locker room, TOGETHER (not doing anything but getting ready for class, but obviously TOGETHER)... The maler of the duo, shoots me a WHATCHULOOKINATBLONDIE look. MB, in all her sassiness, "Trust me I wasn't lookin' at your 'woman' in the locker room, Chick! Sheesh!"
You're right about the angry.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
LOL! Hey you all, I'm ok. It's ups and downs. Who knows what life holds for us all? One second he's normal, the next he's not, the next he's happy, then super happy, then distant, they normal, then mean--but not toward me just around me, if that makes sense. He's still a pretty darn good dad. So that's good. Who knows? Waiting it all out. How are all of you?
No S E X with OWs until you directly, clearly, distinctly tell W that you are no longer in a committed monogomous R with her.
Doesn't matter what she did. You seem to be living with her as your W. Thus, no S E X outside M without fair warning.
Another fair warning, this one for you: Unless I'm missing something, you aren't anywhere near done with your M. Thus, sexual Rs with other women at this point aren't going to turn out well for anyone.