I do notice some kind of effect this is having on her. I will stick with it mostly because it is helping me let go. I was starting to look forward to getting child support and having my girls stay with me in my apartment more than once every 2 weeks. I guess I will just have to wait and see where this takes me.
futureunknown, wow, thank you for your insight! I have been doing all kinds of "acts of service" for months now,should I stop them? Should I confront her on the EA? I have not decided yet.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final