yep brain disorder...being mean like that is one of the behaviors....there is a whole list they gave us of a bunch of behaviors you will see....
you know when someone is stressed or think of during your marriage maybe when things seemed normal an if you had a high stress time and thinks got out of wack you might see actions that you thought wow that was over the top...but then things calmed down and u realized it was the extreme stress and even thought their reaction may have seemed like ..hello....where did that come from...you could at least tie it to ....the issue..
now with this...it does not end....i mean in a reasonable time....and it just keeps coming and you only see glimples of who they used to be....if at all...
it is a brain disorder..yep...that BPD thing...that I want to learn more about...isnt that if u say white they say black...u can even do a test on something u could care less about....I dont know...its interesting.....
I think the hardest part is the hostility and blame..as you see my son is now mentally ill...it is heartbreaking ...but the difference is..he doesnt blame me...however he does have odd behaviors that are so different from who he was for 18 years....but you know....you still love them with all your heart..its the blame and hostility towards u that is harder than hard....
anyway...when she texts those things to u are talks to u...dont take on the task of interptation....pray for her and surrender her to God...she is sick and you are healing...and for what ever reason for now this is the deal.....You be the man you know you are....and she is sick and isnt in reality....remember also dont poke the bear....ask her for as little as possible --- she really cant do much anyway..so you need to...dont engage and dont....try and figure out the sick mind......heal you and the kids....thats what this doc should do...:) let the rest go through surrender to God....
