Hi JCJ - I loved your response too but I marvel more at how you can be so laid back about H jetting off with OW.
A few weeks back, my H text to tell me that he had arrived safely at interstate airport (something that we always did when either were travelling alone) and I just felt that he was rubbing salt in to my wounds. I told him not to do it again and so he has not. He did text me about two weeks ago though, after a communication from me, to say that he was not yet back in town ... followed up by a message a few hours later to say that he had arrived and would visit soon (which he did).
He did the same with texting a photo to me, when I was back in the UK. I asked him not to as I found it too upsetting but when I sent a text photo of the puss, he called it blackmail ... go figure!
Do you not find this hurtful or am I the only one who remains as confused about everything as when this all first kicked off? Am I missing a trick here? I do agree with whoever it was that said it shows they must be still thinking of us .. ??
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
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