Yeah. He's never apologized and he's never actually admitted it was an affair - and that puts me in a precarious place, the 'Do I really want to be with this person?' place.
I think we can get past it, but he can't have it both ways. If he wants to bust me for my affair, then he has to take his own lumps as well. If he wants to maintain that what he did *wasn't* an affair, well, that's fine - but then I didn't have one either so why are we fighting again?
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
