I agree completely with what Stormrider (I think) said:
Don't assume the worst, unless you have hard evidence.
Your mind will cause you to automatically assume the worst, but that's not necessarily the truth. Also, I think it's probably a good idea to not snoop if you have gotten some progress. I have actually gotten some progress in the right direction also in the last week, but I am trying not to let that cause me to lose my detachedness that I worked hard for.
