WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

I picked up the boys from school and camp. They were both very excited to see me. My 3 year old just kept saying daddy over and over again

We grabbed dinner at subways and went to my 7 year olds soccer game. He had a great game and scored 3 goals. Unfortunately, we lost 11 to 3. Their mother didn't show up for the game. I know it bothered the boys.

When we got back home I could see my 7 year old was still bothered about something. I thought it was about losing the game so badly but he said that mommy had been saying bad things about me. He said he was sad because he thought they were true but once he saw me he knew they weren't.

I reminded him that he could ask/talk about anything. He said he knew but didn't need to since he knew what she said wasn't true. I asked how he felt when he heard her. He said he was sad. I told him that he should tell he it was making him sad. He said he didn't want to because he didn't want her to be mean to him. It hurt me when I heard all that

I gave him a hug and told him that I loved him and was sorry he was sad. He just gave me another hug.

My 3 year old also said she said I was doing bad things. I asked if he wanted to ask/talk about it. He said no as he was mad she said it.

Now I'm really mad

She did call tonite. I didn't say anything and just let the boys talk. My 3 year old said he didn't want to talk to her. My7 year just said he wanted to bring the soccer pictures he just got home. She said he would bring them on Sun. He said that was all he wanted to say. She asked a few more questions that he answered but was anxious to get off the phone

I really need to get a hold of my lawyer