On the verge of a meltdown.

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O.K I hear what everyone is saying what I have noticed is,so far the only time they are together the kids are with them.they do work together and have know each other for 9 years.she is a corrections officer and only 5 females out of 95 employees.So she has a lot of male friends. I believe it can turn to poison and I will look at it with a magnified eye.I have told her it makes me very uncomfortable as well as the kids.she said if it was that much of an issue she would not go there.we will have to see.
On a side note I did spend a couple hours with her tonight.S12 had a meet and greet with his school football team,coaches and parents.we actually had a good night.it felt kind of weird though sitting with other parents we know from all the kids playing sports together.kind of twilite zoneish but it was a good night.

I thank everyone for their views and input.this is not a level field I am playing on but I do need to tip it one way or the other for my own sanity.

God Bless