Hey J3B, nice to see you back here. Jimbo, as always, wonderfully said.
D, there are no shortcuts here. You dont get a free pass. You can spin your wheels and try different things and hope that one of them works. But, I will tell you, the only way to do this is do the work.
There are enough of us here who have gone through this to be able to tell you what doesnt work. What doesnt work is any pleading, crying or guilt on your part. What doesnt work is you trying to geat her to explain why she feels as she does. What doesnt work are relationship talks at this stage. What doesnt work is you making excuses for your actions.
So, you can keep doing all these things or you can start your journey. Your choice.
