You are not supposed to be pleased, you are supposed to be on top of your game and following the same advice you'd give me
'Zackly. Which is why I mojo'd her right into a phone call with Themselves, stopping her in mid-sentence with, "Well, guess you want to see how the first day went; hang on, I'll get 'em."
As you know, it's not the being intrigued that's oh-so-irritating. Per the DB Rulebook, that's a goal. It's the being intrigued now, after her Master Plan didn't come off as planned.
Friend sent me a YouTube of some MWD competitor (I have to assume) with some thoughts on the Ten Kabillion Dollar Question -- "do I still want to be married to this person"?
I've said it before -- I honestly don't know. A lot happened with Foreign Female Friend, and even though I'm working hard at keeping myself out of a Fog of my own creation, there was an awareness there of the breadth and depth of my own self-subordination to the M over the years.
Could use some input from Mr. @Puppy Dog Tails, to be honest, on this whole idea of being made out to be FallBack Guy when OM fails to live up to the advertising.
Anyway, I'll post on Foreign Female Friend and my 6,000-mile self-assessment later. Right now, I've got to get D Herself cleaned and jammied, because I can barely keep an eye open.
