I'm taking notes from you Professor Julia. The response is perfect! It's weird.....my husband just took a 6 day vacation trip to visit childhood friends, texted me after he arrived and then sent me a long e-mail the day he returned....just like he would have when we were together. This tells us that they are still thinking about us, doesn't it?

Does your H value affluence? Just curious since it seems he is mentioning the first class plane upgrade a lot. Jody had me start a list of things that seemed to be "valued by my H" and things "that catch H's attention". These are helpful in trying to keep the lines of communication open.