THANK YOU Gucci - I think that you have given me wise advice and I hope that you pop by again to see my progress.

Today is Day One. I will NOT contact him. Without pursuing, he is going to have to contact me at some point - stands to reason. When he does, I shall just show the side of me that is stronger and has run out of patience with his dalliance.

If there are things domestic that he needs to know about, do I just email them with no explanation or dialogue i.e. copy of bills etc? (As you will have gathered, I have no income right now).

Your intuition is right - I am very weak emotionally as a norm, but even more so right now in the situation that he has created for us. The way he sees it though is he is NOT having an A as he ended our M before he accepted the persual of the OW. My M vows say differently.

Last edited by Eskimo Nell; 08/28/09 02:30 AM.

WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09