Hmmmm, the stages of M as described by MWD and by Retro say that if we can just get through this part, the love we'll have afterwards will be different, deeper and better.
I'll take two, please. Extra large.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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Yeah, the whole recent thing with OW triggered some minor anger for me as well, but it's already passed.
Good on ya for the football practice. My S9 is more of a bookworm than an athlete, but we're trying to get him into Scouting and martial arts. He has the build to be a middle/long distance runner, too.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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He has the build to be a middle/long distance runner, too.
My big guy is built more like a defensive lineman. He's great. He had the best practice I have ever seen and told him he did great. He was actually surprised.
So, I'm beggining to notice a pattern in myself that seems consistent with others here. After getting myself right (i.e., detaching) and continuing to DB, I am beginning to sense low grade anger, or maybe the beginnings of contempt, brewing in me. Nothing W has done, but what she hasn't done. Maybe it's just the realization of W's apparent flippant attitude when it comes to our M - she can throw the D word around when she dropped the bomb, but now seems to enjoy acting like my W again without the slightest acknowledgment that a nuclear weapon blew up in our house.
I'm not going off the reservation, and I will stick with the gameplan. But, I am disliking the slow rate of progress. There is clearly no urgency on W's part. I understand it, I just...don't...like...it.
