BTW, it occurred to me after the edit window expired that my post might possibly be taken as bashing LBS in general or some of the posters on this thread specifically.
So let me rephrase...
If any of us, WAS, LBS, etc. spend too much time or energy blaming our spouses, we blind ourselves to issues that need fixing on our own side of the fence.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137