I agree! After today..I realized that if I want to save my marriage we have to seperate. It is too hard for me to work on my marriage while I am around him..he is going to stay here on the weekends and I am going to live with my parents on the weekends w. the kids..he thinks it is too late for me to change..I say it is never too late..I need my space. I need to show I am serious about this marriage. Today I noticed ow left at 12"45 he did not run today(he runs at lunch) and he said he went to get something to eat..I have to let go of that and I cannot do it while I am here. He needs to figure out if he wants to be with me. I feel confident about this decision. it is best for our family.