@Kalni/M,Tomorrow is our scheduled Mediation, so I've been compiling documents & taking them to be filed w/the courts. Amazing how much time this sort of thing sucks out of your life!
H has decided to go for 50/50 custody which he may find difficult since I have every hour he's spent w/son documented since day of separation. I have had S6 80-90% to date.
I tried an experiment last week when new guy was out of town. It made it appear that we were no longer spending time together, i.e., he was out of the picture. Since H expressed his desire to R, I called & asked if he would like to come over & spend time w/us for an hour, since he hadn't seen S6 in a while, to see what the reaction would be. H="Ah, well....I wished you had called earlier. I...ah...can't make it tonight."
It was an immediate pull back when he thought there was no competition. Tells me everything I need to know.
Now that it's back to that shiny black car parked in front of the house when he comes for pick up, it spun right back & he's calling/emailing throughout the day with questions/information that are unnecessary. I just don't respond.
Meanwhile, I think new guy should teach a class on how to get & keep a women's interest. I know there must be some sort of insecurity there, he just doesn't show it at all. Nice to be with someone I can laugh with & appreciates my fine points.
H showed me what he's willing to do about all his "regrets"....not much except to tell me he made a mistake & doesn't want a D. Actions are a no show.
