To frank_d..thanks for stopping back in. Amen indeed.

To cire....I have Chapstick for A$$'s in my medicine cabinet. I need it everyday (see below).

To BBMF....when are we getting a beer?

To grace...like most people here, I have stayed with my IC to help me through the loss of my marriage and the impending loss of time with my children. Throughout, I have been open and honest about MY issues...MY perceptions of XXX..and tried to present the daily occurrences as fairly as possible. My IC feels she is either "Bipolar II" or borderline personality disorder.

Case in point. Yesterday's text exchange. In the AM, XXX asked me if I would be home in time to relieve her Aunt "Mary". I told her I had one case and then I would be home. I got home early (I keep Wednesday's light). For your perusal, a brief text exchange:

Me:XXX...are the kids at home?

XXX: No. They are at my mom's. (Translation: lie, Aunt Mary never got them, she intended for her mom to have them that day as Wednesday's are my day with the kids)

Me: Could you please have them ready?

XXX: I am working. You apparently are not. You can call yourself and arrange to pick them up. You know the number. ( translation: you're a worthless physician and not making enough money)

Me: There was no answer.

XXX: Then there wont be for me either. You will have to try again in a bit. Surely a smart man like yourself can figure that out. I am working. (translation: I'm an idiot and POS)

So, all....I will let you formulate your own opinions.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;