So I am sitting thinking "What should my role be in telling the girls that W is moving out?". I know W expects us to tell them together. I think that is what my IC told me needs to be done for the children's sake. But seriously, what will I say? Do I need to say anything? How can I answer the questions when I don't fully comprehend why W is doing this myself?
She tells them. You are there.
Most of their questions can be anticipated. Make a list and decide what your answers will be.
Most important they need to know you both love them and that you will no matter what.
I have been through this and it was bloody hard. Others here have too. You get through it...I'm sorry.
