How does it happen? We manage to save it once, and then go right back to (at least) potential loss?
Do you ever think that it just isn't natural for 2 humans to pair bond for life? Or that maybe our spouses just don't like who we really are - when we are just being our natural selves and not dbing and working our butts off to keep something alive?
I've been thinking today. At least if this time it does end, I'm a stronger person than I was 4 years ago, my kids are older and will be less affected and we are financially more able to handle a split. Sure....I want things to work out, but gotta be prepared for the worst and see something positive, so there is still a life for me if it all ends.
