Need Advice, WAW wants to give it a month

[trrose]

It is so sad BUT, there is so much more to it and I have always been loyal to him and clear that our marriage is important. I regret that in frustration I would say "I can't take it anymore" or "I can't stand you" or things of that nature...but I know that I was suffering and in a sad fog and he had a lot to do with it.

I see you as a cerebral perfectionist so im sure you have given yourself some grief but we are all human. I have a friend who told me “Every time we open our mouths, pearls don’t necessarily fall out.” I think that this true.

With relationships I have found that when they are good, you forgive the little stuff and give benefits of the doubt. When relationships are bad any little slip up and it’s a three alarm fire


Forgive me for saying this (please!)but your H, while he seems like a fun guy to have a beer with seems a little immature with more hangups than the average bear...is he jewish? (just curious) He does seem self centered and the mother thing seems a little off

H says that I killed our marriage

always takes two. has he ever acknowledged what role he played in all of this?

Anyhoo, sorry for going off

Please! this is the forum and you have been so helpful to me. I hope to return the favor