My H coming home and bragging about other women drove me further into despair.
Seeing the way he looked at other women made me feel very disposable.
Now he says it was a "cry for help" but it really was not the right approach with me.
Our sitches are different in some important ways. My H works in the entertainment biz, he brags a lot and he did not express his desire and willingness to come together and take care of business in the way I believe you have.
Even now, if he came to me with a plan, enthusiastic and sincere, to bring our family together, handle our finances and that he would lead, I would be on it like a fly on sh*t.
