By the way, I too had a conversation with my W several months ago (New Year's Eve of all days) where she through out a couple of "F U's" as well. I remember thinking in the middle of it, I cannot believe the woman I married and love is saying such a thing to me - my mind just could not comprehend it, like it wasn't even real. I didn't even want to be in the same room with her for weeks after that. Unfortunately we were still living in the same house (well actually still are for one more month when she moves out), so I couldn't avoid her. Sorry didn't mean to hijack.