Right now we schedule out one month in advance. Last night we did the Sept. schedule. I get every Thursday b/c I have to take Nathan for allergy shots after school. Dan gets every Wednesday b/c I have night class. Everything else is up for grabs. There is a 6 day period where he is in Canada so he wants them the weekend before and the weekend after.
But he said not overnight as they cannot stay at his parents' house with him. He is supposedly getting a rental house asap to start having overnights. However I will make a plan with a friend to stay overnight on one of those weekends and he will have to find a way to make it work. I can't do everything to suit him at my own expense.
Then once the schedule is filled in he usually has about 12 days out of the month that are 'his'. On top of that, 3 or 4 days a month he will call last minute and ask what we are doing that night, want to come see kids, or take them somewhere, etc etc. So no not set in stone. He says it is 'impossible' to have a fixed visitation plan b/c 1)He travels for work which screws things up 2)He doesn't have anywhere to keep them on overnights
