No, I want him to have time with his kids. I am against the idea that he is doing it to get out of paying me since I have had the kids 85% of the time since he left and now he will say he is with them 1/2 the time...
I feel like he is also trying to check me, see what I am thinking. It is typical after he has been an ass for him to try and have a couple 'normal' exchanges with me to neutralize things. After I reply nicely a few times he backs off again, certain that I am not up to anything...