There has been a gradual downturn over the last 2 years approx. I saw it, but did nothing. Sure, here and there I applied the stuff I learned last time, but never long term.
A while ago, I did something to her that really hurt her and completely turned her off sexually. Sex had been rare for a while and non existent recently. I only found out last night how much that one occurence had destroyed her.
It is possible that the conversation yesterday was the tipping point and that this may be short lived. But...either way, there is a real problem festering there.
Even if she does comes home in the next few days, I don't know what I will say. Promises shomises sure won't do.
It's killing me, but I am backing off today. Just trying to work as usual and then see what tomorrow brings.
