I looked at the "piecing" forum last night and saw that a lot of the folks there are experiencing many of the same emotions that I am - mostly anger and resentment surfacing, and we now question ourselves if we really want to save our marriage after all of this.... Another poster said it's another rollercoaster - just a different one.
Just as I thought - another chapter.
I'm not ready to start posting there yet - maybe soon.
Past few days have been good still. She still says she's "on board" with all of this. We plan to meet this weekend and talk about finances - we'll see what happens after that.
Me: 46 W: 46 M: 9.5 yrs D4, D9 D filed by her 11/3/08 Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09 Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09 W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09 3rd Bomb 9/2/09